International Adoption from POLAND

In a continuing series of posts about international adoption country programs, the latest country known to have waiting children with HIV is POLAND. Contact Nina.

According to Adoption.State.gov, Rainbow Kids and Children’s House International (CHI):

*The requirements below are flexible for special needs according to CHI

Age requirements: Adopting parents must be at least 25 years old (according to CHI). Parents are generally within 40 years of the age of the child (fathers up to 45 years older according to Rainbow Kids).

Marriage requirements: Married couples and single individuals may apply. (5  years preferred with no previous divorces according to CHI).

Timeline: 4-12 months

Travel: Two trips are required (total of 4-5 weeks according to CHI). Only one parent must travel for 2nd trip.

*Inquire about a sibling group of 3 who were waiting as of October 2010*

6 Yr Old Girl in Thailand & Twins in Ethiopia

There is a beautiful 6 year old girl waiting for international adoption in Thailand. She is being advocated for by World Association for Children & Parents (WACAP). Older parents okay. Prefer families with 3 or fewer children in the home. She is a quiet, but friendly and sweet girl. There is grant for qualifying families. A video is available.

WACAP is also advocating for twins in Ethiopia. The brother is negative and sister is positive – they are 9 years old. There is a $9,500 grant for a family making less than $125,000 after deductions. Both of the children are currently healthy and they are sweet looking children. ID numbers: W.KW.0401.31165.07 and W.HW.0401.31164.07 on the waiting child photolisting.

Adopted Brothers are Pediatric HIV/AIDS Ambassadors

This article is from Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric AIDS Foundation. Lee and Lucas are ambassadors for the foundation.

Children adopted with HIV

My name is Lucas, and I have a brother named Lee. We’re both 11 years old and are living with HIV. We didn’t know we were HIV-positive until one day last summer, when my mom told us why we had to take so much medicine and why we went to the doctor so often.

When I heard of HIV for the first time, I had no idea what it was. My mom showed us books with pictures of the virus and taught us about how it attacks our immune systems. Knowing I was HIV-positive seemed scary at first, but it soon began to make sense. My mom told Lee and me that we got HIV from our biological mothers, who passed it on to us in the womb. It is hard to live with HIV, but I know it will never go away. Now, the only choice is to take all my meds and keep the virus at bay. Some of our meds taste absolutely awful. As bad as it seems to live with HIV, I realize how lucky we are to live in a dedicated family and place where we get good care.
Hopefully someday soon, there will be a cure for HIV. Until then, the most important thing we can do is eliminate pediatric AIDS by preventing the transmission of HIV from moms to their children. We can eliminate it if we raise money, educate people who don’t understand, and help the moms and kids that need it.

I dream of a world free of HIV so no other kids have to become a victim of this virus.

You can order holiday cards designed by Lee and Lucas to benefit the Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric AIDS Foundation.

Why I Advocate for HIV-positive Orphans

I wholeheartedly believe that there won’t be any more HIV positive orphans to advocate for within my lifetime.

That’s right.

Until that time, I will advocate for parental care until the time comes when my advocacy efforts are no longer needed.

The solution, of course, is in preventing mother to child transmission of HIV/AIDS (PMTCT). Preventing a birthmother from transmitting the virus to her newborn is only a matter of having access to medication.

In 2006, about 530,000 children became newly infected.  In 2008, around 430,000 children became infected.  As time goes on, fewer babies are being born with HIV/AIDS due to PMTCT. At the rate of 100,000 fewer per year, we’re only a few years away!

In 2004, only 10% of pregnant women with HIV were receiving ARVs in low and middle income countries.  In 2008, that figure was up to 45%. Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric AIDS Foundation reports 53% of pregnant women worldwide are currently receiving ARVs (June 2010). [Kaiser reported 51% in July 2010.] This percentage is increasing every year and I feel it is feasible to get to nearly 100% PMTCT rates in the foreseeable future.

In high income countries, mother to child transmission has been virtually eliminated and I have every reason to believe that this will be true worldwide as access to treatment becomes more commonplace. As an example, less than 200 babies are born HIV positive in the United States every year because pregnant women in this country have access to the meds. Out of those children who do end up positive, the vast majority stay with their biological families and only a couple of children per year end up in need of foster or adoptive parents.

So why do I advocate for HIV positive orphans? I choose to advocate because I feel orphans with HIV are among the most underprivileged people in society.  Their need for healthcare is a life or death matter and their need for a family is paramount to become a productive member of society.  These children have few people speaking out for them and they truly do not have the means to speak out for themselves.  Being a child without parents must be an immensely difficult position to be in.  I can’t imagine how it might be for a helpless sick  child without a parent who loves them, cares for them, protects them and provides for their daily needs.  Statistics regarding the future prospects of children who emancipate from orphanages, the foster-care system, or who grow up as street children are profoundly bleak: prostitution, homelessness, substance abuse, incarceration and suicide affect the vast majority of those children who grow up as orphans and never find permanent, loving homes. In my opinion,  orphans with HIV  and other diagnoses which ostracize them, are the most disadvantaged people on the planet and I cannot think of a group in greater need of a voice.

Until there is universal access to prevention of mother to child transmission of HIV, I will continue to bring awareness, educate families and find homes for these precious children. There are TOO MANY – at least 200 children (that I know of) are eligible for international adoption RIGHT NOW. If you would like to join me in advocating, please be in touch. We need at least 200 families and I can’t find them alone – people need to see these precious faces and learn the facts about pediatric HIV. If you are not in a position to adopt, please consider sponsoring a child so they may stay in a permanent loving family, contributing to the adoption fund of family trying to bring an HIV+ child home, or advocate on behalf of a child so that a family can find them.

 

Help Save an Angel with HIV

This is Olivia, one of the precious little ones I met at an AIDS Orphanage in the spring. She is darling! She is affectionate and loving and talkative and sweet as can be. And she has a family coming for her! I’m so excited that Olivia will know the love of a family and have access to excellent medical care. Her parents have been diligently raising funds and compiling the adoption paperwork and they have just reached a major milestone – submitting the final dossier to Olivia’s country. From their blog:

This sweet little 3 year old is Olivia.  She currently lives in an Eastern Europe orphanage for children who are diagnosed with HIV.  Olivia does not have a future in her native country due to her orphan status and her diagnosis.  At the age of 4 she will be sent off to a “boarding school.”  When she ages out at the age of 16, she will be kicked out and left to fend for herself on the streets. Sadly, many emancipated orphans end up sleeping in the sewers.  She will be jobless and homeless as her HIV and Orphan status will follow her forever.  She has no family to take care of her and no means to pay for the very expensive medications that will keep her alive and healthy.

We are very blessed in our country to have wonderful medical care and medications.  HIV is not a death sentence.  It can easily be managed here in the US.  Olivia can live to old age and have grand children some day.  There is no risk to other children around her at school, sports, or at home.  She can share a cupcake with her brother and he can kiss her when she is feeling sad.  Please look at her picture, can you see her on the streets?  Or can you picture her in a loving family with critters to chase and acres of woods to explore?  She will enrich the lives of those around her and she will help us squash the stigma that HIV still carries to this day.

Our family decided to adopt after we suffered our last pregnancy loss.  We were drawn to the children on Reece’s Rainbow and in particular, the children with HIV.  We fell in love with little Olivia and committed to adopt her.  We have $7k left to raise friends, and we need to ask for help.  Feel free to post our blog link anywhere, or copy and paste our CHIP IN button and put it on your blog.  You can even make a tax deductible donation thru Reece’s Rainbow (www.reecesrainbow.org/sponsorstern.htm).

If 200 people donated $35 each, we will have reached our goal.  Please help spread the word. If you can donate at least $20, you will receive a key chain.  If you can donate $35 or more you will receive a tote bag (pictured left).  Thank you for helping to save an angel with HIV!

Int’l Adoption Program: CHINA

HIV adoption from China

China is by no means new to international adoption; Americans adopted more children from China last year than from any other country. This is a stable, well established program. For a long time, children with HIV were not listed for international adoption (not due to any shortage of HIV+ orphans), but now that China is mostly a special needs program, there are some HIV+ children starting to be listed.

Try contacting Adoption Advocates International (very experienced with HIV adoption) and Chinese Children Adoption International.

According to Adoption.State.gov and Rainbow Kids:

Parent ages 30-55.

Child ages 10 months – 13 years.

Married couples married at least 2 years. Previously divorced couples must be married at least 5 years. No more than 2 divorces. Total value of family assets $80K. Family income equals at least $10K per family member. Both parents should have high school equivalent degree.

Single women are now being accepted for children with special needs such as HIV. They must not have more than 2 children already living in the home, with the youngest child being 6 or older. They can adopt one child at a time with one year interval between adoptions. Parent age 30-50 or for parents over 50, no more than 45 years between the age of the child and parent. Total value of asset $100K. Income equals at least $10K per family member.

See above links for health requirements and criminal history of adopting parents.

Timeline is about 8-12 months for HIV+ children. After receiving a referral, it takes about 4-8 weeks to get travel approval. Travel time in China is up to 2 weeks. Only one parent must travel.

Always consult with the agency as they may have slightly different information that the outline above.

Urgent Adoption Situation – family needed

Waiting child - international adoption

This little girl is in an Eastern European country which has a quick adoption program – about 6-7 months total including homestudy. Only married couples may apply. One of the parents must be 51 or younger and the other parent’s age does not matter.

Victoria is an affectionate girl who loves hugs and kisses. Her date of birth is June 2004. She likes playing outdoors and she especially loves to swing and slide. Both of her sisters have already been adopted and she is still waiting for a Mama & Papa to take her home and love her. She speaks and can dress herself but she has significant developmental delays, HIV and is described as being hyperactive. It is possible that she may have fetal alcohol syndrome. There is urgent need for a family and significant risk that she may be transferred to a mental institution soon. She has SO much potential which can only be achieved in a loving and attentive family. She has been in an excellent orphanage up to this point and it’s crucial that she find a family before being transferred to a rather awful place. The birthmother is deceased, most likely from AIDS and she has 2 biological sisters who have been adopted.

Special needs adoption photolisting

This little girl LOVES individual attention. An adoptive family who recently visited her says that it is clear she wants and needs a Mama of her own and she will really miss her sisters. She loved to lay her head in this mom’s lap while on the bench swing and having her hair stroked. She is okay with sharing the attention, too. The mom says Victoria was fine with having 2 children in her lap but the other child tried to crowd Victoria out (because he wanted the attention all for himself) and she didn’t like that. Victoria likes sensory input. For example, she kept running her arms against the husband’s unshaven face and shivering and making a funny face then doing it again. She really likes being in the middle of whatever is going on and to be included. Unfortunately she is often excluded, even by the caregivers. It is a cycle that needs to be broken: she is delayed, she gets frustrated, they don’t let her do things the others are doing,  and she therefore gets more delayed and more frustrated. She is very, very sweet and loving. She needs a family with only a couple of kids so she can get lots of individual attention.

If you want a little girl to hug and kiss, she will gladly take all the hugs and kisses you can hand out. She is good with both men and women. She is a bit small for her age – maybe a size 4. The children are valued and loved at this orphanage. The grounds are visually stimulating and the kids get outside for a couple of hours in the morning and afternoon. They even have a pool and go swimming.

Waiting child photolisting

AAI Uganda Adoption Program

HIV Adoption from Uganda

Adoption Advocates International (AAI) has introduced a pilot international adoption program for Uganda. Salem Richards is the Uganda Program Coordinator and she has also recently adopted from Uganda and blogs at SisterHaiti. They are working with an HIV orphanage in the western part of Uganda near the Congo border. The orphanage has many HIV+ children including a 2/3 year old boy, a beautiful 5 year old girl, a very sweet 7 year old boy, a 7 year old girl and a 12 year old boy. Siblings are also waiting for a family – the sister  is 4ish and the brother is 7ish. Pictures, videos and additional info are available.